feat: Add presence heartbeat for Matrix online status

- matrix-gateway: POST /internal/matrix/presence/online endpoint
- usePresenceHeartbeat hook with activity tracking
- Auto away after 5 min inactivity
- Offline on page close/visibility change
- Integrated in MatrixChatRoom component

scripts/stop-phase9.sh

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+#!/bin/bash
+# ============================================================================
+# Stop Phase 9A — Living Map
+# ============================================================================
+
+echo "🛑 Stopping DAARION Phase 9A services..."
+docker-compose -f docker-compose.phase9.yml down
+
+echo "✅ Phase 9A services stopped"
+